Divorce Mediation Using a Family Law Or Child Custody Attorney As a Mediator

Mediation is the process in which parties attemptthat may never happen. There is often endless
to settle and resolve disputes, divide property,court dates, and nonstop continuances. The
and determine child custody issues using a RhodeDivorce process can be a long, drawn out battle
Island Mediator.involving a massive amount of legal fees,
The purpose of the mediation process is ancountless court appearances and incredible
attempt to curtail a long, contentious andamounts of stress.
expensive court battle in Rhode Island FamilyMediation allows the parties to skip the expensive
Court. A mediator is a neutral third party whoand often stressful process of competing
seeks to facilitate a settlement or compromiseattorneys posturing to get leverage. Mediation is a
rather than decide the case. Rhode Island Familyway to avoid endless court appearances, endless
Court Judges decide Cases. Rhode Island Divorcecontinuances, waiting in Court
Lawyers advocate for their clients best interestThe Sad reality is that often the parties could
and seek to get their client the best dispositionhave come up with the same resolution of their
possible.disputes at the beginning of the case through the
Mediators are neutral and attempt to facilitate anmediation process without the huge combined
agreement between the parties. A mediator islegal bill, without the missed days of work and
similar to a referee. A mediator seeks to facilitatewithout the stress.
creative solutions to problems, disputes and feuds.The Mediation Process can help parents learn how
Mediation occurs in a Lawyers conference roomto co-parent and come up with a visitation
not a courtroom and should be less stressful thanschedule or custody plan on their own terms.
a contested divorce or child custody battle.Many parties should at least try mediation as a
Mediation should be less expensive than a litigatedway to attempt to settle their divorce on their
RI divorce. Mediation allows you to resolve yourown terms. Mediation allows parties to be invested
Divorce, Child Custody Dispute or Family Lawin resolving their disputes rather than allowing the
Case on your schedule not the Courts schedule.judge to make the decision.
Mediation is usually a lot less time consuming thenDivorce is usually not a "win- loss" process. Rhode
a contested divorce. Mediation allows you toIsland is an equitable division of assets state
Come to a mutually agreed upon result ratherTherefore, no one usually completely "wins" in a
than having a disposition forced upon you.Rhode Island divorce. A mediator can help the
Mediation sessions could also occur in the middleparties come to an equitable division of the Real
of a RI Contested Divorce in which both partiesEstate, Pensions, 401k, boats, cars, businesses,
have Rhode Island Divorce or Family Court Caseproperty, cd's, marital debts.
or Family Lawyers representing them. The parties-Stop the Madness,
can meet with the mediator in the middle of the- End the "divorce war",
divorce and seek to obtain a compromise that-Curtail out of control legal fees,
the Lawyers / Attorneys were unable to achieve.-Divorce with Dignity,
In some divorce cases, it becomes increasingly-Protect your Children from the adverse
obvious that it is the attorneys who are battlingconsequences of a contested divorce,
more than the clients and it is the attorneys who- Become invested in the process,
appear to need a "divorce".-At least attempt an amicable settlement before
The Rhode Island divorce process can bethe Divorce battle begins.
destructive to the children and the parties.If the parties cannot agree and are not willing to
A contested divorce may involve endlessmake at least some concessions to their positions
posturing between the parties and attorneys in/ claims then mediation will probably not work. If
Family Court. There is often bickering and pettythe mediation is successful then Rhode Island
disputes that occurs in Providence, Kent,Mediator David Slepkow will draft a memorandum
Washington and Newport Family Court. There isof understanding or a Parenting plan.
often endless waiting for a court hearing or trial